Archive for January 29th, 2008
Where is your virtue today?
Unfortunately, today wasn’t a great day. I had a little disagreement with my co-worker who’s have a bad temper as always. When I first met her during my first few days she’s been nice and after a week she’s become so bossy. I didn’t care because maybe she feels like she’s a lot more superior than I am and more knowledgeable than I am when it comes to work-related matters. And then we become somehow friends I get excited when I know she’s there to help me and she’s become nice at one point, she would give me a ride when I need one and I thought that’s very nice of her, indeed it is. Until last week when we had these Big Bosses visiting the our area and would stay in the store for a few hours checking on us and our procedures if they are being followed properly and accordingly. Since then she’s been acting weird, and really agitated — to impress the boss. That’s OK, but you don’t need to impress them and follow the rules only when they’re around, if you’re doing that and following the SOP at all times you don’t need to get nervous and shaken. So today, she finally got into me and I snapped! not to her but to my manager and told her I don’t ever wanna work with her anymore or even get close to her. The problem is she’s bossing me around, not just bossing around but, yelling and scolding you. It’s absolutely uncalled for. It is not necessary for her to act that way, she is the person who would say the line “Patience is virtue” every after a while. I knew when she starts to get impatient, when she starts saying that line. But lately she hasn’t spoken the words, meaning she’s getting uncontrollable. I can always try to understand her but what I can’t stand is yell and glare at me as if I’m a criminal, and making a big deal out of nothing.
So, tomorrow, I would have to deal with her again but I swear to God I’ll just pretend I’m deaf and I would still try to understand her even though other people could see the way she acts and her lousy attitude. I really hope she realizes that she has to control her emotions. I feel bad though that she’s having trouble controlling herself. I wish I had the power to touch her heartand make her a nicer person.
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